Consultations

In-Person Support or Virtual Support

For Women, Men and Couples

crack the codes of your body

Offering in-person and virtual support for Women, Men and Couples

Expanding and enhancing our erotic potential is not something that comes naturally. I think of our erotic abilities as something that we must intentionally choose to cultivate, like a Yoga practice or learning how to develop skills of working out, like lifting weights or developing athletic abilities - like playing tennis or dance.

Which is to say - we develop mastery with our erotic abilities only through practice & intentional cultivation.

Animal Body Hormonal Instinct alone is not enough to become exquisite lovers. We must move beyond our intergenerational trauma, our cultural & religious conditioning, our inherited societal shame and guilt around sexuality, and the negative impact that living in a Sex Negative & Touch Phobic culture has imprinted on us.

Our sensuality is a way for us to enhance our aliveness & Ecstatic Potential - and to overcome imprinted fear, self-doubt, shame, negativity and trauma.

Mindfulness is a way to begin that self-cultivation process, through cultivating awareness, and through expanding our receptivity to sensation, pleasure & succulence.

Offering a Safe, Neutral, relaxing, sex-positive space to open up about intimacy, relationships, attachment theory, and your experience of touch and sharing physical affection.

Consultations

  • For Men

    After having conversations with thousands of men, I understand that the spectrum is vast - but there are a lot of consistent themes. My question for you is, what are your needs? Are you able to express what your needs are? Do you feel safe opening up to your partner about your needs?

  • For Women

    I want to support women to crack the codes of their body. As women, it is our divine birthright to fully know our orgasmic potential and it is also our duty to uncover the hidden pieces of shame, trauma and intergenerational wounding that block our access to our potential.

  • For Couples

    How is your sex life? Are you guys still having sex? How long have you been together? How frequently do you touch each other and express physical affection? Are you able to open up to each other to have conversations about sex and your physical relationship?

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My Biases & Beliefs

  • I am a strong proponent of physical touch that is non-sexual; that does not have to escalate towards sex. I believe that touch is inherently SENSUAL, and that it is absolutely critical that a romantic relationship maintain a physical affectionate touch based connection.

    Therefore, Oxytocin Bonding - through non-sexual physical affection, touch & cuddling, is an absolute foundation for maintaining a secure relationship.

  • Whilst I support all sorts of non-traditional / non-monogamy & open relationship dynamics.. I am personally biased towards committed relationships that are fluid bonded and secure.

    I know this is a potentially controversial thing to say - but I am biased against condoms.

  • Fundamentally, I believe that the purpose of sex is about love, and discovering who we are - within the context of our deepest connections. It’s not about having multiple orgasms and erections that last indefinitely, it’s about discovering your direct experience of love and uncovering your capacity for depth of connection with your heart wide open.

    I am biased towards us all walking home back towards Love, and discovering our beautiful beloveds along the journey.

  • I have been deep diving into attachment theory for years, and am extremely curious about the correlation between our attachment styles and how they connect to our experience of sexuality, sensuality, physical affection, touch and cuddling. I will be very curious to unpack your attachment patterns.

    I am biased towards us all healing from our anxious & insecure attachment patterns, so that we can develop secure, healthy relationships.